One thing I know someone at work who likes to go to clubs. He wants me to go with him. He said that way I will know how to act when I find the right one. I countered with the point that, Will Smith came out with a movie about him having all the right answers then he finds the one and he's clueless.

Now I'm not saying there isn't benefits to having lady friends, but are they going to stick around? What happens when someone does find someone in a club? You know their seems to be two places that people get find their mr/miss right. One of them, is work. The other is school.

I've been told just to be friends with a woman, but that doesn't work either. I really hate it when a woman just wants to be friends. It's like she marries someone else, doesn't she think that might put a crimp in the friendship? And usually it's only one way, hers.